Thursday, December 8, 2011

Happy Birthday Tam!


Today we celebrate my big sister Tammy's birthday. My sister has always been an inspiration to me. I have always looked up to her example of strength and her rock solid faith. She is definitely one of a kind. I am very proud to be her brother. We used to not get along very well when I was younger, but when she moved away to college, and then went on her mission, we grew closer upon her return. I was grown up and not as annoying anymore. I cherish the times I would visit her on campus at Utah State University and she would let me (and Jason) go to class with her. She would take us to play tennis at the University's courts, and then spoil us with her delicious homemade enchiladas and we would stay up late singing karaoke. Much has changed in both of our lives since those days, but whenever we get together, I still cherish each moment spent with her; whether she is helping me with math, or we are making yogurt, or she is patiently trying to speak me through setting up a sewing machine for her, we always laugh and have a good time. I am thankful for my big sister Tammy, and want her to know how important she is to me on her birthday. We are going over today to make homemade pizza! Happy birthday Tam! I hope your day is filled with sunshine and happiness.

Sunday, October 16, 2011

A Fire Still Burning

With all the bad things happening in the world today, I was so happy to see this video that I am going to post on here momentarily. Since mostly only close family and friends view this blog (and since I never post much, probably even they have dwindled to a number hovering somewhere around zero), I am going to open up a little bit about myself. Most of you know that I am a musician. Music has been a huge part of my life. Most of you also know I have struggled with my faith in recent years. I have continued to attend church, and sometimes I enjoy it, but sometimes I hate it. I have unresolved issues of anger and resentment that have caused my faith to dwindle. I have long been a fan of the band "The Killers", and more specifically of front man Brandon Flowers. As a musician, I enjoy listening to the subtle things in recordings, such as certain guitar tracks that most people would not notice, or keyboard lines, bass lines, vocal harmonies, etc., that bring emotion and layers to the listening experience. The Killers music moves me, and has even brought me to tears on occasion. It isn't just pop or rock music. It has substance to it. Imagine my surprise years ago when I found out that Brandon Flowers was raised Mormon. This only made me more interested in his music. As I started following his career more closely, I noticed that I had a lot in common with him. As a performer, you are constantly in situations where it is easy to be tempted, and it is easy to be drawn towards that temptation, especially when you have to get on stage and perform night after night. It is hard to explain to someone who doesn't know what it's like to have that pressure to perform night after night, and especially when you don't really feel like entertaining people sometimes. So I wasn't surprised that Brandon Flowers had issues with the Word of Wisdom. As a faithful member of the church, it is easy to think that the Word of Wisdom is an easy principle to follow, you just don't break it. Well for some it just isn't that easy. We all have our problems in this life and our own trials to overcome. The part I always found intriguing about Brandon Flowers, was that he never talked bad about the church, he never shied away from saying, "yes, I'm a member of the church." Even when a reporter said to him that he had personally seen him drinking alcohol, he replied, "I try not to." Reporters have tried and tried to make him do like so many other famous members of the church who have fallen away and taken the stand that, "yeah I USED to be Mormon, but not anymore." Well even though he had his problems, he never insulted the church, never denied being a member, and always said only positive things about the church. Brandon lost his mother to brain cancer in February 2010. He always spoke of her taking him to church and being a positive example in his life. When I saw the video that I have linked to this post, I was so proud of him for his courage to do what is right that at the end of the video I was brought to tears. Thank you for your valiant example of strength Brandon Flowers!

Saturday, July 23, 2011

Where Do the Sidewalks Begin?


Renowned author Frank Lloyd Wright once said, “Nature must be ashamed of the way this place has been laid out and patterned after a checkerboard and parceled out in little parcels where you stand on each other’s toes, face the sidewalk, your elbows in the next neighbor’s ribs ….” (qtd. in Yagelski, Miller 273).

Frank Lloyd Wright’s words may have been aimed at the design of bigger cities, but he has also unintentionally given those of us who live in the outer suburbs satisfaction in knowing we have enough room to spread out. We are not stepping on each other’s toes here. Our elbows aren’t in our neighbor’s ribs. But we cannot face the sidewalk, because there are no sidewalks. I live in a newer community in Graham, WA called Thrift Pond. We have a split level home on an acre of land. All the homes in our development are on at least an acre of land. It’s quiet out here. There are the sounds of nature all around us. I think one of the main reasons people choose to live in the suburbs, besides the great prices on housing and land, is to sort of get away from it all. But in order to get back to it all, it is necessary to drive everywhere. The interesting thing about having to drive everywhere is that Graham has grown so much, that every necessity is very close to home. There are grocery stores, hardware stores, department stores, major national chain retail stores, and any other kind of shopping you could want, all within two to three miles of most of the newer developments. Many of these are easily within walking or biking distance for those who would rather not fire up their vehicles every time they need to run to the store. The online journal Health by Design states the following:

- The 1995 National Personal Transportation Survey found that 40% of car trips in the U.S. are less than 2 miles, short enough to be accomplished on foot or by bicycle, if the infrastructure supports walking or biking.

- Cars have their poorest efficiency and so burn more gas during the first few miles of travel

If these communities of suburbia, such as the one I live in, had sidewalks implemented, I think many people would utilize them. The advantages of sidewalks can’t easily be measured, but consider these advantages:

With over two-thirds of Americans being either overweight or obese, sidewalks would give people more opportunities for exercise. I grew up in a community where there were sidewalks on both sides of the road on virtually every street in town. The community seemed to be more active. It was an everyday sight to see families strolling together in the evenings along the sidewalks. Children would ride their bicycles, people would walk their dogs. Runners and bicyclists had a safe alternative to being dangerously close to traffic on the shoulder of the road.

With more people utilizing the sidewalks, there would be less vehicular traffic, therefore reducing vehicular emissions and helping to improve the environment. Those who wish to utilize the sidewalks would save on the ever increasing cost of fuel each time they decided to leave the car in the driveway. Along with these benefits, those who still choose to drive will become more conscious of pedestrians and bicyclists, and face less traffic.

Sidewalks also help to build strong communities. With the option for members of the community to use the sidewalk, it helps to bring neighbors together. While out for walks either alone, or with family, sidewalks give ample opportunity for saying hello to each other, and getting to know the people within their neighborhoods. With the arrival of the electric garage door opener, a lot of people walk straight out of their homes and into their garages, start their cars, drive to work, and then drive back home again, into their garages, and straight into their homes without ever actually being outside of their homes. This doesn’t lend itself to being very neighborly. Getting to know your neighbors is a good idea because as people get to know each other, they begin to care for each other. This can make the neighborhood a tighter community, and offer a more comfortable and safer environment for everybody.

The most important advantage is also the most obvious: safety. There are many who choose to walk or ride bicycles even though there are no sidewalks. The shoulder on most roads in local communities is not sufficient to provide a safe enough cushion between pedestrians and vehicles. There are many pedestrian fatalities in Washington each year. John R. Batiste reported that in April 2010, a fifteen year old girl was hit and killed while walking on the shoulder of the road in Milton, WA. While walking with a friend, she was hit directly by a box van when the driver was distracted and drifted off the road momentarily. A sidewalk may have given enough of a cushion to possibly prevent this tragedy.

There may be those out there who do not see themselves using sidewalks. Even though they may not physically use them, they would still receive second hand benefits by living in more close knit communities in a safer environment. They would reap environmental benefits including less traffic and emissions from vehicles. They would even benefit from becoming more aware of pedestrians and bicyclists around them. And if that isn’t enough, online journal Health by Design states the following: Property values rise the fastest in pedestrian friendly areas. Home buyers are willing to pay more for homes in communities with sidewalks. I think all would agree that this is good for everybody. But more importantly, what is the cost of a human life? Can it be measured? I think every responsible citizen would be interested in reducing the number of fatalities. While there may be arguments against having sidewalks implemented by those who don’t see themselves ever using the sidewalks, the advantages of having sidewalks in our neighborhoods far outweigh the potential costs.

I would admonish everybody to do their part to help bring sidewalks into your communities by letting your local authorities know of the need for sidewalks, and the potential benefits to the community. Write a letter to the editor of the local newspaper. Share your views within your respective communities by addressing the city council or your local homeowners association. You can even write a letter to your congressman.

Growing up in a place where there were sidewalks lining every street, many memories of my youth begin with those first few steps down the sidewalk. The sidewalk was there as I lagged behind and tried to keep up with my older sisters on our way to school. The sidewalk was there as my father pushed me away as I gained my balance and my first taste of freedom as I learned to ride my bicycle. The sidewalk was there as I walked along and vented my frustrations to a friend. The sidewalk was there as I walked hand in hand with the girl who would become my wife. The sidewalk is more than just a continuous slab of concrete; it is an integral part of our American heritage.

Works Cited

Batiste, John R. ‘Washington State Patrol Media Release.’ Wsp.wa.gov. 29 Apr. 2010.

Web. 17 Jul. 2011.

“Fact Sheet: The Benefits of Sidewalks”. Health by Design, nd. Web. 15 Jul. 2011.

Yagelski, Robert P., and Robert K. Miller. The Informed Argument, Brief Sixth Edition.

Boston: Wadsworth, 2004. Print.

Friday, April 15, 2011

Mt. Hood Wedding Dance

A view from near the stage where I played with Mister Miyagi last weekend at Mt. Hood. The wedding party loved us and we had a lot of fun. They decided to do something special for their first dance, and this is it below:

Friday, January 7, 2011

Friday Morning

I had band rehearsal with Mister Miyagi last night. We rehearsed for 2 hours, from 7-9, and then we had a "band meeting" for the last hour. Many things were discussed and there is a lot of craziness between band members right now. It seems like everybody wants something different out of the band and that is causing issues. Since I joined Idol Eyez, it has caused even more stress with trying to get shows, etc. Plus a lot of weird happenings went down with drama between the two bands, and I'm right in the thick of it since I play in both bands. I think now that the holiday parties are over and it's a new year, there won't be as much drama with the bookings, but maybe I'm just being optimistic. I've got a show up in Seattle tonight with Miyagi. It's a private party for some dude's 30th birthday. They rented the Crocodile Cafe out for the party. It should be a lot of fun, and hopefully get us over all this stuff that has happened and just get out and play some music and have a good time. Anyway, I got to bed around midnight, and at 5 a.m. Brandon started throwing a fit over his pajamas because even though they were soaked with urine, he wanted them back on and wouldn't shut up about it. So I didn't sleep at all from then on. I finally got up around 6:15 and got ready for my run with Juliet. We got our usual 6 miles in and had fun as always.

Wednesday, January 5, 2011

A New Year Again

I have witnessed my 34th New Year (33 years old), and once again I am determined to make myself a better person. This year should be an awesome one as in a few weeks we will be moving into our new house. It looks like this year will also bring a change in my employment. My goal is to make sure it is a positive change and not a negative one. I'm a bright person with a lot of different skills, so I think I can adapt to whatever comes my way. I would also like to re-prioritize my running. I have been plodding along for a few years now. Last year I was only able to run a 5:03 in the mile, and this year I would like to see that time closer to 4:40 or so. But I also understand what that means as far as commitment and time spent running. It seems like it hasn't been worth working 3 times as hard just to take 30 seconds off of my mile. But I would at least like to take it a little more serious this year and maybe run some road races and stuff. I did the Hood to Coast last year and held my own, but I wasn't in the shape I should have been in. I would also like to better myself in other ways, such as spiritually, etc. Don't we all though? I like ringing in the New Year because it is really a great time to evaluate where you are and where you would like to be and try to connect the dots to try to get closer to that. Here's to a great 2011!!